Friendship AND Relationship

Hi guys... i am back again... this time round juz to collect comments and views from u guys. I am having a class gathering again for a birthday of 2 of my poly frens. But some of those invited cannot make it. Cos they have to spend time with their gf/bf. I never had a gf b4(shame to admit it) n i believe i may do the same thing also. But i do wishes to know if all the people out there think the same way. Well ur bf/gf can be meeting up every day or every weekend for all i noe. But your poly fren meet like like 3-4 times a yr. Some more its a frens birthday. Doesnt it make it more important than juz meeting ur gf/bf ? Well maybe u meet ur gf/bf once a week only but do u think its possible to bring them along to ur fren BIRTHDAY celebration? I really wishes to know wat u guys will do and whats ur view on it ? Am i really the selfish one who never tasted love n thats y i feel that attending the gathering is more impt ? PLZ FOR THOSE WHO READ THIS N WANNA COMMENT... DONT TELL ME I THINK TOO MUCH AGAIN. thx.
I dun get the human metality @ times. Or does it prove that this grp of frens r worthless to u? Doesnt mind them if they r ard or not? Will only meet them juz for show ? I really wishes to know more abt wat u guys think... Cos sometimes this type of reaction will give a bad impression n leave a scar for a frenship? Well... thats for mi of coz....cos i am always thinking too much... hahaha
PLZ leave ur comments on this one guys....